By MARISSA FRAUSTO
Staff Writer
I believe self love is the best kind of love. Without self love some relationships might not work out, you’ll struggle with confidence, or even little things like feeling like you have no one. Mentality going into self love could be hard. You have your bad days, degarde yourself because of charming others around you, and the motivation working on yourself could be hard at times.
On the bad days you might feel insecure about yourself which is perfectly fine, personally when I would have my bad days all I would do is sit and cry as time passed but I’ve learned that regardless of how beautiful one another is doesn’t make you any less. In the process of learning self love you get to know yourself more. For me I found out more about who I am, what I want, and what I like.
I’m still learning about myself and something I could tell you is that there is no limit or time on self love which is something I really love. All you can do is take it day by day. When working on yourself you should feel more okay with being alone, spending a lot of time with yourself could help you learn more about yourself.
Giving to yourself would be amazing. When I spend days alone I like gifting myself by going out to get my nails done, my hair, hitting the gym basically working on self appearance. The motivation to go to the gym could be hard. Some days you could feel like you don’t want to get up and something I do is remind myself that it’s worth it because of how far i’ve come. If you put in time and effort to go after what you want as far as self appearance the happier you’ll be with yourself. When I feel like I’m alone I remind myself that everyone goes through the process of learning to love themselves regardless of how long it takes, I should know that I am not alone.
Self love is a beautiful thing because you see all the progress you’ve made. Throughout self love it gets hard, but knowing that you have yourself throughout it all you’ll be okay.